sexual energy

So here I am surrounded by beautiful women. Amazing women. Inspiring healers & leaders. All laughing. All crying. All naked. Just sipping womb tea while yoni steaming. (my dream!)

Such a safe space. Such a cozy energy.

Our bodies are being sexualized, but not in the way you think.

We are admiring each other breasts. We can even get turned on just by appreciating the beauty in the other.

But this sexual energy cultivated is beautiful.

Ive come to understand theres nothing inherently wrong with being sexualized, the problem is the expectations & pressure that come when that sexual energy is not seen as sacred.

Lets start by redifining what sexual energy is.

Its not a sexual act.

Its energy.

Energy can be suttle and it can be intense.

It can be a tingling feeling or it can be an oasis of spaciousness.

Creativity is sexual energy at its finest

That lighting up someone gets in their face when they are talking about something they are very passionate about.. thats sexual energy.

We all have sexual energy.

Yes, it originates in your physical sex region but it doesnt just stay there. Like all energy it can move & it can transform.

I believe sexual energy is the purest form of energy that then transforms into other type of energies. The creation itself of every human being comes from this energy.

This energy can be cultivated in so many ways.

& the practice of doing so its not to “have better sex” (although that will def come!) but inherently to have a better fullfilling life!

If you can cultivate more of the prime energy and you can move it through your body, you will heal, you will move repressed/stuck energy, and you will have more life force to use as fuel for all of your endevours.

This to me, is the fundamentals of Tantra.

This energy can heal.

This energy can create.

& with those two things everything else in life aligns.

You can fuel better relationships.

You can heal past traumas

You can create a life you are proud of & enjoy.

The more sexual energy moving through your body & energetic field the more expansive life can get.

But like everything in life, all in excess can be detrimental. So dont worry, you can learn to channel, to ground & to transform this energy so you are vibrant with pleasure in life but also deeply focused & in tune with the world around you.