Tantra Massage
for men
let’s start with the basics… what is tantra?
Tantra is a spiritual and philosophical tradition that originated in ancient India. It counts with a wide range of beliefs, practices, and rituals aimed at personal and spiritual development, emphasizing the unity of the physical and spiritual realms.
At its core, Tantra seeks to integrate and harmonize various aspects of life, including sexuality, emotions, and the divine. It recognizes that the physical body and sensual experiences can be pathways to spiritual awakening and transcendence. However, it's important to note that Tantra is not solely focused on sexuality, as many may assume.
Tantric practices aim to expand consciousness, cultivate inner energy (known as Kundalini in some traditions), and achieve a state of oneness with the universe.
The Tantra I resonate the most with is one of expansiveness. It’s a lifestyle that invites you to get to know yourself and allow all of yourself to be seen and honored.
I strongly believe we all have divinity inside of us. (Yes, I do believe there is a God) but I know I come from that God meaning I have goddess energy in me. I’m holy and I am sacred. I not only believe I do, but everyone else too.
Everything holy and sacred is beautiful. I believe there is beauty in absolutely everything. My tantric path has been one of awakening and releasing shame and doctrines that do not serve me.
As mentioned before, tantra is not about sexuality but it does see the divine in that too because it sees the divine in everything. Most religions and societal practices shame our sexuality. Tantra is so powerful because it doesn’t hide the sensual nature, it doesn’t push individuals to hide their sexual energy instead to embrace it as part of their sacred lives.
Sexual energy is sacred. It is life force. It is linked to creativity, to intuition and to being fully alive.
When I talk about sexual energy I am not referring to sexual acts. Anything & everything can have sexual energy. There is pleasure everywhere. Pleasure in listening to waves at the beach, pleasure when laughing with friends, pleasure when kissing your beloved, pleasure when soaking in a warm bath.. pleasure is linked to this sexual energy.
The more we allow ourselves to experience pleasure in our every day life the more our sexual energy starts building up. This energy is also extremely healing.
what is a tantra massage ?
It’s a 2 hour ritual.
I bow to you, your sacred body and the divine universe.
With my bare hands & lots of coconut oil the tantra dance starts. The massage itself contains a soft touch ( I’m not going deep into your muscles like a Deep Tissue massage would). I am mostly pressing sacred energetic marma points along your whole body. This is a massage where you are actively participating with your breath. I’ll invite you to take deep inhales/exhales as I press on these areas. Pressing gently but firmly on these energetic centers actives energy and I’ll sublimate -move the energy up- towards your heart & crown. This act can be very subtle or you might feel tingling sensations- depending how sensitive to energy you currently are.
The method I was taught has a mix of tantric lineage along with ayurvedic therapies modalities.
DIVING DEEPER INTO THE lingam MASSAGE
This massage will cover all of you. This includes an in depth genital “lingam” massage.
Pleasure may arise and it is a safe space for that, but the techniques involved are focused on raising the root chakra pleasurable energy towards the heart and crown of the head. We are moving energy inside & up instead of an outside explosive one.
Many men have been taught by society that their lingam is a machine for performance. They have been swamped with porn from an early age creating a disconnection to their body and their own pleasure. They have come to see their sexual experiences as ones of solely releasing stress- missing out on the bliss of this sacred sexual energy when it is channelled and moved up towards the heart.
In tantra it is said that the Lingam emits energy while the male heart absorbs energy. Many men have been taught to always show up strong, tuck emotions away ending up in closed hearts that make it really hard to create deep intimacy with loved ones.
During this massage, your lingam and heart will be admired, respected and honored. You will be in a safe-relaxed container when you can let your guard down and allow emotions and sensations to move through your body. You will be guided to harness any sexual energy and direct it towards your heart.
When this energy is channelled, men are able to experience higher states of pleasure outside of the lingam area, experience more creativity, feel their hearts opening up creating deeper intimacy with their loved ones and a sense of connection & confidence with their own body.
This massage is NOT an ejaculatory or “Happy Ending” session. It is not a sexual exchange. It is not sexually explicit in any way.
I, as your practitioner, will create a safe container and will be guiding you through anything that comes up using breathing techniques along side my intuition and knowing.
what SHOULD I EXPECT TO EXPERIENCE?
I invite you to come into the session with an open heart and intention - but not specific expectations.
This massage can look very differently to everyone.
One men might have a subtle relaxing experience that brings clarity into his life, while another might experience waves of deep pleasure throughout his whole body. While another might shed tears & go through deep emotions releasing stuck patterns. Everyone’s experience will be exactly what their mind-body-soul needed at that time.
pricing: $333
Book a discovery call
In order to make sure we are fully aligned hop on a short 5 - 15min video call where you get to share what is calling you to receive this ceremony & I’ll make sure to answer any questions.
This call is required in order to book the session.
TESTIMONIALS of men
“ The experience was incredibly pleasurable in a non-sexual way and the pleasure was from within me. Its really hard to put into words. It was really profound and peaceful. Since the experience I have felt more in touch with my body and aware of all the pleasuable sensations I am capable of receiving as long as I am able to listen. Again when I say pleasure I want to stress that it wasn't sexual. Sensual might be a better word but I don't even think thats exactly right. Just being alive in a living breathing body is a wonderful gift and this experience made me more aware of that.”
“I wasn't aware that my body was capable of feeling such intense pleasure for such a sustained period of time. I felt waves of comfort and pleasure”
“The sternal/chest rub really helped me get in touch with my breathing and was incredibly enjoyable”
want to know more ?
Take a dive into Ep 2 of The Tantric Glow Podcast where I explain in detail the rundown of a Tantra Massage. The misconceptions, what to expect, the benefits & my own experience receiving.