ethical non- monogamy
What if I told you its okay to love more than one person at the same time?
What if I told you everything you know about relationships is not the only way?
What if I told you the same way you get to choose the career you want , what clothing style defines you & what rules apply in your household..you also get to choose what your relationship dynamic looks like
You get to choose what rules apply,You get to create agreements
Why do relationships even exist? If it’s not to make everyone involved a better person & to enjoy life together
Relationships are for the people involved not the people outside judging
Relationships are meant to make your life better. To add value
Each one of us is different. So why wouldn’t many relationship styles exist?
You get to choose what relationship style best fits your life & you get to change. You get to explore
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
Monogamous is not the only relating style out there. It is a wonderful one when done in an ethical conscious way. The same way all the other relating styles are also awesome when done in an ethical way
Different relating styles open different wound & areas of growth
Some people, like me, have always felt they can love more than one at a time
There’s a term which I have felt for years but until recently learned the name: COMPERSION.
Which is defined as the opposite of jealousy. Instead of feeling upset/threatened by a partner being romantically or se**sully involved with another you feel a sense of happiness for them
This does not mean you do not ever feel jealousy. We all feel this.It is an emotion. But we get to choose how to act when that emotion rises. It usually comes up with a hidden message about yourself
Every relating style can be chosen for the right or wrong reasons. There’s people only going for monogamous relationships because they are too afraid & insecure of sharing a partner. On another side, there’s people going for open relating styles because they are too afraid of committing & being fully seen
All relating styles take work. None is better than the other.
My invitation today is to question it all & allow yourself to explore if that is what your heart desires
